So what's the key? To understand how to make your ex miss you, the old saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder" is the key.
In the first instance, you tell your ex that the break-up is for the best and then stay away from them for a set period. This period should be about a month and you can mark it on your calendar if you like. Mark the day when you plan to contact your ex again as this will help you stay focused and working towards your ultimate goal - making up.
Once you have made this very first step it is guaranteed that your ex will start to miss you as it's a pretty bold move. Nobody does this after a break up, people usually cry or plead or do something crazy. When you make this very sensible, mature and "difficult" decision (difficult in the eyes of your ex that is, but not for you really as it's all part of the plan) your ex will begin to think you are actually pretty cool.
So, next you make no moves to contact your ex. No texts, calls, emails or face to face contact. Absolutely none. This has the effect of nurturing the feelings you began by walking away. You see, as far as your ex is concerned, if you leave them alone, the situation is the same as when you left. A calm, cool split with no nasty arguments and no fight ie. Nothing to regret or resent you for, only a growing feeling that maybe breaking up wasn't such a smart idea.
Now, during this period you have to work on returning to who you were when your ex fell for you. This part of how to make your ex miss you is a kind of back to basics approach, where you look at what you have become in the time since you first met, and stop all you bad habits or repair the things you have let slip in your life. Become YOU again and look to the future, not the past.
It is likely your ex will get to hear about the "new you" and will miss you even more and be aching to get you back. Your ex's friends will be saying things like "I saw Jane the other day, she looks good" or "Have you spoken to Tim recently, he seems really happy." Now when the time comes to contact your ex again, they will take one look at you and know they made a mistake.
If you have just broken up then don't despair. Even if you have not been handling things well until now getting your ex back can still be done.
How much do they really mean to you? If the answer is "a lot" then you need to get with it and start on your plan to save your relationship
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